Paintings created: 73
Paintings that found new homes: 67 (we kept one for ourselves)
Murals painted: 2
Sculptures sold: 1
Festivals participated in: 17
Festivals canceled due to not having even close to enough work: 1
Times that has happened before: 0
States visited: 9
Studios renovated: 1
Studio renovation projects not quite completed: 1
Nights spent in the camper: 56
Nights spent in hotels: 4
Nights spent in Airbnbs: 8
Days spent with puking kids in the camper: 2
Set of tire spikes carefully driven over backwards because the campground gate was closed: 1
Tires popped: 0
Prayers involved in that process: 47
Times proud parents took the kids climbing with ropes: 1
Children who cried while climbing: 2
New schools attended by our children: 2
Alamos visited: the 1 and only
Trips to Spain in progress: 1 (oh yeah!)
Time is weird. On one hand, I look back at the year and think, “Damn, that’s a full year! We sure did a lot.” And then the next thought is, “Wait, that was this year?!”
One minute, I’m looking at pics of our kids when they were cute little tikes and so adorable and I wanna squeeze ‘em and find a baby to hold and it all feels like yesterday. The next minute I’m thinking Good Lord when will these kids grow up and get their poop in a group.
The see-saw speed of time. The beautiful disjointed rhythm of life. Somehow the following vignettes from this past year all happened in one year. For whatever reason, that just doesn’t square with my brain. Was that really 2024? I guess so. Here we go.
Overall: great year! We made and sold more art than ever before. We had our best festival EVER by a long shot (I’m looking at you Greenville). We did just as many festivals as we usually do but our workflow felt more manageable. I usually get a stye or two (and transform into Styeler) from stress, but I had zero this year and was happy to only endure a couple of cold sores. How’s that for a measure of success?
We spent so many wondrous nights in our 70% renovated 1972 Argosy comper and it was magical. About half of those nights were me alone in a parking lot or state park en route to a show, sleeping well but occasionally waking up to weird noises or police lights, none of which amounted to anything other than cheap accommodations and a story to tell Ash in the morning. The other half of our nights in the Argosy involved our family of four deep in the woods, building a campfire while the kids took laps on their bikes, Ashley tending tasty meat on the griddle; the good stuff.
Ash and I explored new territory with two INDOOR murals in our home state of Michigan: one in Marquette featuring a collaged paper process and the other in Holland utilizing a huge figure cut out of plywood. Both turned out great and we continue to laugh and dance and bicker our way through creative projects together and she manages to put up with my nonsense. God bless her.
I found new realms to explore with the paintings, as I continue to steadily march towards more loose, sketchy, impressionist backgrounds and more realism in the figures. Sure, their legs certainly aren’t getting any shorter, but they somehow feel more properly proportioned with slightly elongated torsos and arms, but not TOO elongated. It’s hard to put into words but they’re starting to just look right and that feels good. Ash and I were back through older work recently and she opened up an image of a painting from years back that I had forgotten I’d painted. The figure was quite whimsical and cartoony and it made me chuckle to see how the figures used to look. It’s fulfilling to see growth toward something new over the years. The following are some of my favorites from 2025:
Our personal lives were busy as always but, with the kids’ growing independence, we’ve had to strive more than in the past to create time for family activities. Ivan wants to be with his buds and Orin wants to be difficult and these group experiences are getting trickier to create. With that in mind, it helps to explain why the memories from the year that come up first for me are those that made us slow down and embrace one another, mostly in shared grief. Here are few wayposts of our year:
We buried my dear Grandma Stoner and the kids learned a little more about the finite reality of life, but not too much because they’re still just kids. They saw me cry as I spoke at her funeral and cry again when Ivan stepped up to share a memory. After the funeral, Ashley and my siblings and I all smoked a Marlboro Light in her honor, which is another thing our kids had never seen.
A miraculous kitten arrived one morning under our screened in porch and Ivan crawled under there through the dirt and debris to get it with butter on his fingers. He named her Buttermilk and for two days, our kids were flying high, overjoyed with this unexpected little bundle of sass. Too soon, they were forced to learn another hard lesson, this one about loving and losing pets as Buttermilk was too sick to remain with us.
In recent weeks, the family traded some future mural work with my uncle for a wood-fired sauna tent that we immediately erected in our front yard. It has quickly become a great way to spend time together and sweat our way through the gray days of Michigan winter and process all the ups and downs of our busy life. It is these moments that I cherish the most.
Overall, I am filled with such gratitude and awe at the path and place that God has brought us. At my best, I can laugh at the many small miracles that happen daily with tears in my eyes. In reality, I’m not always at my best but most days are good and I’ve got no complaints.
May your 2025 be filled with light and love and bold acts of courageous kindness, both given and received. Sending lasers of joy and wonder your way from our family to yours.